A couple of weeks ago, I saw the cutest act of romance …
Isn’t that the sweetest gesture? I love the idea that the writer’s fiance noticed how much to get to the milestone of 100 subscribers meant for her, and how he celebrated it with such a personal gift.
After reading that publication, I felt inspired to look for all the small and big ways in which my husband, Max and I care each other. Here are some things that occur to me …
1. If I have had a long day, Max will lie to me with a head massage, and play with my hair, which feels incredibly comforting. If you are stressed or exhausted, I will give you shoulder friction and friction on your feet, while I will ask about your day and transmit all the fun things that children have said or done recently.
2. If something breaks through the house, Max will fix it – immediately. Earlier this week, our oven broke, and that same night, I went out while he was at dinner and found him seeing online tutorials “how to fix his oven.” The next night, our oven was in operation. When I was a teenager, I thought the romance had to do with slow dances in the moonlight and write love songs. But now, as a 30 -year -old woman, I love having a partner who solves big and small house problems immediately. That my friends is hot.
3. Since our daughter was born four years ago, Max has surprised us both with beautiful Valentine’s bouquets. You, I have never received flowers as it is in my life, and you feel so good to have a boy with great pleasure with the flowers! This year, I asked him why he also decided to give bouquets of extravagant bouquets to her, and he said: “Because she appreciates the good things in life, and it is very fun how arrangements are as great as her.”
4. Every morning, at 4:30 am at the point, I will wake up with the Max alarm (that construction workers’ schedule!) And willpower Myself out of bed to turn it into a pot of fresh coffee. I do this in part to have a caffeine drink to keep it alert on your trip early. But I also do it to solidarize during his brutal times of attention, although I always fall into bed after giving him a shipping kiss at the main door.
5. A eve of our wedding anniversary (we are reaching seven years in May!), I always bake a lot of joy, the cinches of the cake of the baker’s night. Max, who has a great taste for the sweet, goes crazy for these tender rolls with a touch of nutmeg. I love to see him smile when I take a plate from them.
And you? What big or small forms makes you feel loved, and vice versa? Keep our marriage, along with our careers and children and all difficult things in this world, can sometimes feel hard. But over the years, I have learned that looking for small things you can do so that your partner feels appreciated makes a big difference.
PD: Eight comments from the reader about marriage, and how sweets are these stories of proposals?
